Sextra-curricular activities causing dorm dilemmas
October 6, 2009 by Claire KnightPosted in: In this week's e-newsletter, Latest News & Views, Student Life
Apparently, the old-school tricks, such as hanging a towel on the doorknob, aren’t used to give roommates a heads-up anymore. Why not?
Good question, because Tufts University has received about a dozen complaints from students who said their randy roommates didn’t think twice about having sex — even if they were still in the room. The complaints prompted school officials to revise the school’s 2009-10 guest policy.
Now, Tufts’ students have sexual-behavior expectations in black and white: Students are prohibited from having sex while their roommates are present in the room. Further, the school doesn’t allow sexual activity in dorms if it will disturb a roommate’s privacy, study and sleep.
Seems like an issue most schools would rather not have to deal with, because campuses across the country are treading lightly on this issue. Here are a few examples:
- Boston College is a Catholic university that doesn’t allow cohabitation in dorms, but notes “consideration for others is an important aspect and privilege of having a guest.”
- Harvard University’s student handbook disapproves of serious or persistent sexual conduct.
- Emerson College’s visitor policy reminds students that the right to live in “reasonable privacy takes precedence over the privilege of entertaining a guest.”
Has your school received complaints from students about their roommates? If so, let us know how your school is handling the problem in the comments section below.
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Tags: Boston College, Emerson College, Harvard University, Tufts University


October 7th, 2009 at 7:13 pm
The title of this article promises “Here’s help”. That’s plainly not true. There are none, zero, nada, nil helpful tips on dealing with students’ sexual behavior in dorms.
October 8th, 2009 at 7:02 am
Tell your room-mate you will video-tape him and his guest and put it on you-tube.
October 8th, 2009 at 10:08 am
I’m laughing at Harvard’s handbook. “… disapproves of serious or persistent sexual conduct.” Does that mean the non-serious and non-persistent sexual conduct is approved? Sounds like casual quickies are the approved sexual conduct. I hope there is better context surrounding the quoted text that improves upon its intention.
But to expand on the article, how enforceable are any of these ‘policies’?